Again, if a logo looks better without using the slogan, then don't use the slogan.
I would like the logo to be masculine, but also convey a very slight hint of seduction (if possible). Something that if a guy was looking at the site with the logo on it, no one would think they were looking at something inappropriate or sleezy.
Check out becometheman.com to see what logo would look good on the website.
Be original. Just because I liked one design doesn't mean you should try to copy it. If you think something different might work (like a different color scheme), try it. When I like something, it is more for the style and creativity it showed, not because it contained a certain element (like a bow tie). If it looks like someone else's design, I will judge it against the other design, which I've already liked. I haven't given anything 5 starts, yet, so don't be afraid to try something a little different. Trust yourself.